Dear Hopelessly In Like,
I have this guy that I really like. We met at a grocery store and we have talked ever since. We started hanging out last weekend and my friend came along (support and to make sure it was safe) she liked him as well but he told me he doesnt like her and I believe him. The problem is I really think he might be too good to be true. I mean he is european, has beautiful green eyes, is very well built, always smells amazing, pays for everything, is so chill, and is everything a girl could dream for. I know im young to find true love (I’m only 18) so I am doubting that this is it. I also am worried he might play me because its happened with every single relationship i’ve been in. What sould I do?
First off I like the fact that you named yourself, because it makes it easier on me! haha, well anyway. So, I I’m guessing you are keeping your guard up, which in this case might be good at first. I am having a bit of trouble understanding if you friend liked him for herself or for you. You didnt make that very clear. I think if your friend likes him for you and he doesnt like her as a person then that should be a major red flag. As a wise person once said “chicks before dicks” hahah, seriously though. I would never choose a boy over a good friend. Dont think anything is true love. Getting swept up in the idea of it could make you wear rose colored glasses towards the relationship. Just take it day by day and enjoy his company and after a while then think it is “true love.” If I were you I would give this a shot, dont keep your guard up too much just because you have been played. But I still would sleep with one eye open just to make sure. Update me on how this is going!
- Tumblina
